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Post-anniversary blues

Posted by: Kiran on: December 3, 2009

Our anniversary took place on Sunday and that fact made me feel warm and fuzzy inside, and then three days later I was again thinking about splitting up.
I know this strikes you as a sign of being bipolar, but let me explain.
Before our anniversary celebration, which we decided to begin on Saturday night at midnight, [...]

Time goes by so quickly

Posted by: Kiran on: November 3, 2009

We are approaching an anniversary.
This is what I wrote at S&T30 about Boo originally:
“A longhaired guy visited my profile on gaydar, I messaged him jokingly because I misread the captions on his pics — short-haired “July 2006″ which I read as “July 2008″, then lovely long locks on “August 2008″, so I just had to [...]

Values

Posted by: Kiran on: October 7, 2009

I am a bit scared right now.
I am also a bit drunk right now. Both things are due to the fact I had an accident today on my bike. (Don’t worry, no wounds that look like they’re gonna last.)
It’s just that the accident made me realise how fragile my happiness is. How fragile my body [...]

Why Are They Still Single?

Posted by: Kiran on: September 18, 2009

A slightly irritating, but mostly fascinating article in Times Online on four women that are “still single”.
The irritating bit is in the title already: “still single”. It suggests that there is something wrong with being single, and that those women should look at their miserable lives and reassess why are they STILL single. “Four women [...]

Song of the Day

Posted by: Ray on: August 30, 2009

Most of the people I meet… okay, most of the guys I meet tend to have their own song in my head, at least at the beginning; a song that sums my feelings about them up to a tee.
To give some examples, Arwen had “Angel” by Madonna; Barry had “Here It Comes Again” by Tracey [...]

Tired of (not) sleeping

Posted by: Kiran on: August 25, 2009

Boo’s sister died last week.
It is neither as shocking nor as surprising as it may seem; she was ill for a long time, landed in hospital many times, and this time she just didn’t recover. The only unexpected bit was that she has actually been on the road to recovery, and then all of a [...]

Growing Up?

Posted by: Kiran on: August 21, 2009

For the last… almost 9 months — since I met Boo — I kept on checking my gaydar messages periodically. So has he. We both met people there that we were not planning to be involved romantically or sexually with, but didn’t want to lose contact either. That was the official line.
In the last two [...]

Doubts Even Here

Posted by: Kiran on: August 10, 2009

Sometimes I think: I should quit my job. It makes no sense for me to continue working there, I am bored most of the time, my boss isn’t half as nice as he used to be, I could be doing something that actually develops my skills rather than half-utilises them. I could be working somewhere, [...]

A whiny post about men being puzzling

Posted by: Kiran on: August 5, 2009

On Saturday I did something that didn’t go well. Let’s not go into detail. But I failed Boo, and I was very sorry about that. I said I was sorry, and I brought him a gift, and apologised. He said he was disappointed and angry once, twice, three times. After the fourth time I lost [...]

Remark

Posted by: Kiran on: July 29, 2009

It is a bit of a different feeling when you go out with your single friend, and you meet someone really really cute, and you hit it off right away, and your single friend kinda nudges you to go for it… and then you say bye and leave, because you have a boyfriend.
But then, 784 [...]



  • Kiran: Now I want to hear about the first date :)
  • Dark Cloud Nine: March 19... two and half years ago :) I mean the date doesn't "sound" better than the one of the wedding (Aug 2nd) but that first date was much more m
  • Kiran: I think it will be 29-11, the first meeting :) Thanks Dark Cloud -- but I'll only accept wishes once the date comes and passes. There's far too much t

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